Many people are lost today because they had or still have a
misleading friend. Now how do you get to deal with a friend who always makes
you feel bad and broken or someone who only shows you the wrong side of life
and make you live in it? It’s simple as ABC. You do not need to kill or send
them to Mars? You simply avoid them. If you still have someone in your life who
drains you of your value and contaminates every good thing that comes into your
life, you have got to avoid them. These type of people are the reason you are
still living in doubt about what you really have and who you truly are.
These type of people are the reason why they shake
you off to always see the evidence of how dirty and unfit you are. Whereas,
they are the very reason for contaminating everything about you. You have got
to avoid them to see, feel and engage in anything that gets into your life.
They are the dust that blows around you and flows into your bottle and change your color. And
they will always give you time to feel everything is ok, but then; when you
face the little challenge in your life, when you are shaken; you discover that
you are not really what you thought you were just because they are always
within you. Clear your system from them and make your way clean by avoiding
them. You do not need them and they should not keep getting into your system.
Hello Ketch. Please how do I deal with my boyfriend? He has been a bad influence on me but then I love him so much. Does it mean that I should avoid him? Let him go?
ReplyDeleteHi dear! I suggest you have a break with him; not necessarily a break up. The most effect way to deal with bad influence is to avoid it because sometimes, you might think you can manage it;that you can manage as such negative people around but they slowly make you become fully what makes them bad. I suggest that you should have a break with him and then meet other people who would revive the worth in you that has been beaten up by your negative boyfriend. You might want to spend more time with family, friends, or anyone who always reminds you of who you truly are.
ReplyDeleteBut what if in the process of having a break with him he breaks up with me?
DeleteYou have got to understand that you must count it all joy when the wrong people in your life finally leave. Especially when they have decided to leave. And you must not fear losing anything that hurts you in anyway because most times we hang on tightly on the things that are not meant for us; so they hurt us greatly as they try to change us.
DeleteDo not be scared if he breaks up with you. Happiness is what you own that us hidden within you and it needs someone to locate this happiness and show it to you once they have access to your life. This person might not be him.
Any person who has a negative impact on you is not a true friend, u derserv more than that.my dear never settle for less when u can have more
ReplyDeleteVery true!
DeleteNens---having a bad companion, clearly portrays an image of who you are. All of us know this wise saying" show me your friend and i will tell you who you are". At times i tell my surrounding that "stupidity, dullness, madness, foolishness and ignorance are all airborne diseases" and everyone knows velocity airborne diseases..hahaha meaning once you have anyone possessing negative norms, automatically you will digest such attitude unknowingly. KETCH your ideology carries much credit.Lets match ourselves with positive personnel and most of all lets always pray to have them in our midst, as a friend,a partner etc cuz nice people are very few...
ReplyDeleteNice people are very few indeed Nens.That's on one side. They get more fewer when most of them think that they can handle negativity and then, they realise that they are gradually being transformed to it. The simple thing is, they should just flee from it. Avoid it!
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