Why girls hurry into a relationship

WHY GIRLS HURRY INTO A RELATIONSHIP By Ketch

I have had many ladies talking to me about why they gave all of their selves to a guy so much in a rush. Most of them sounded like the whole thing is a race they must win and beat their fellow girlfriends; especially when they have discovered that some of their friends (girls) desire the same man. Others gave other reasons. Then I came up with 5 reasons why girls hurry into a relationship. The reasons are below:

1) They want to heal from a previous relationship: Most girls think that when they find a new partner or a new man, his presence will erode the unpleasant or bitter experiences they had with the previous guy. So they get to meet new guys straight forward, which to me sounded as a total benefit they must rip from the new guy first, which explains why most of these guys have to suffer a lot to meet up with the expectations of the ladies.

2) They want to set up a platform for marriage: Most girls have had times when they thought about settling down. When it gets to the level where they think that "oh time is not really on my side", they rush into finding the right man for them. Desperate girls want marriage without even looking at the criteria of a healthy one, so they delve into the quest of getting a guy who is near the taste of their dream man. Some even go straight as to find guys who aren't their taste and then, try to refine them to match their taste since time is running out on their side.

3)They want to check it in their to-do list as one of their accomplishments: Girls go to school with big dreams as well as noting which way they should attain it. But as time goes on, most girls, especially girls who are book conscious (bookworm) don't really care about getting the guys first until when they have had all of the degrees, the certificates and the like. So, they are happy having the papers, certificates as I will put it, after years of education; but then, one thing is left out- a man! Yes! A man. Now why did they not get this man earlier? it's because they have noted men to be part of their accomplishments only after when they must have had education to the fullest level first. So what next? They set in to look for the guys. The guy whom they have also noted in their to-do list in the past years. But...then! What really delays most girls in finding the exact match of the man of their dream as to what they have already drawn out on their paper is the fact that most guys are already taken or that it's just too hard to find that particular guy with the qualities these girls desire. Now what? Most of them get tired and hurry into the arms of any guy whom they think they can refine to their taste, especially when they think it's all about using money. Just like case number 2).

4) Most girls hurry into a relationship because of benefits: Especially when its the benefits are personal. Everyone desires a comfortable life, riches, fine people and all the like. Let me...settle with the word "riches". Yes! Riches is the main description for the reason why most girls hurry into a relationship. Most times, they do not care about what they see in the men, but only about what they get-money and luxuries. I believe this is the common reason why most girls would dump me for an ugly guy who has gotten more money then me. 

5) Most girls hurry into a relationship because of pressure: This one goes right back to family, friends and certain conditions that make them hurry into a relationship. Family wants you to get married or else you don't get certain privileges from your loved ones. Friends make you choose that guy because they have seen in him qualities that make him fit for you and..them. You are struggling with life and you think the best stop to get away with this condition is to get married. All of this boils down to one thing-pressure! Oh yes! And more.

Now I believe there are countless reasons why girls rush into a relationship which I have not mentioned. However, you may choose to add it up to the above reasons i came up with and also say what you think about them. Thanks for reading. You might want to share the post to.