5 ways to break the ice and make that guy start talking

5 WAYS TO BREAK THE ICE AND MAKE THAT GUY START TALKING by ketch

Many of us meet people who are so interesting to us, but then most of us can't just have a grip on their stay because soon enough they walk away because of the silence. Here are 5 ways I have come up with to break the ice and make these type of people start talking. I have written it on the view of a lady trying to dig a guy. However, it might not be very effective the other way round. The tips are below:

1) Ask him personal things about himself: Personal things like "why do you sit and post your head like that?" This question is very personal but not threatening and too intrusive like the one that goes "what kind of job do you do and what amount are you paid as salary?" Woaw! The later question is a big bomb to just make that person feel very hot and uneasy and would want to find the slightest opportunity to evade any more questions from you concerning his standards of living and earnings.

2) Get him to ask you questions about yourself: Be polite to ask him to ask you questions about yourself. By doing this, you make him understand that you are very comfortable with the need for him to know something about you. Once he has this go ahead, he will understand that there is no reason for him not to open up to you too by asking you to ask questions about him. For example he might say "Okay, that's very similar to me. Do you want to know how I felt more different after experiencing the same feeling?" Boom! That's him talking! Why? Because both of you are open to share and talk about the things that make both of you related or familiar.

3) Ask him to settle a bet: By settling a bet, you are aking him to give his oppinion on something personal about you that you claim others have said about you. For example, you can ask him "most guys love to walk with girls who are not very short, I'm I really short? What do you think?" This question will create a feeling in him that his oppinion about you counts and he will give you his oppinion happily. You can even stand up and then ask him to come closer to you and see if you are really short or talk; however, you do this when you know he is not going to feel a type if he happends to be a very short person; and then you are really tall. This is a very powerful ice breaker ladies!

4) Compliment about him: If he looks handsome; say it! If he looks tall and smart; tell him! If he smiles really well; just make him know he does. This is a very effective way to make him start off and you might as well get very lucky to receive a lot of sincere comments about you that he has been conceilling all this while. It works well in dates!

5) Ask him for a favour: You may choose to tell him to hold your hair behind while you make your hair band more tighter. Or you may choose to ask him to raise his arm as support while you fit in your shoes well. Just ask him a favour. However, ask him a favour that should not take more of his time. He will be finding ways to get to talk to you after you have passed this barrier by making a gesture as you seeked this favour from him.

The above 5 ways to break the ice and make that guy start talking could be more. You can add in more to these. Please correct my errors and you may choose to share. Thanks for reading.